Normally, people would suffer or had suffered from the same dilemma they are trying to convince people to deal with, or they are trying to attack, or they had attacked with.
A good example is the one that is just currently circulated around the world for Senator John Ensign who has admitted to have an extramarital affair with Cynthia Hampton, Cindy Hampton for short.
I still remember one of the USA’s most popular religious leaders of the time (can only remember the name – Jimmy S.), who had been into the same dilemma.
And if you look around keenly, and if you are aware of the history touching this topic, you will realize that it’s not only them are having this kind of trouble. It’s not only people involved in the politics, religions, etc., but all people in different walks of life.
Anyway, nobody can say a lasting words about this thing, whoever you are (including myself), whichever religious affiliation you are in, you cannot tell. You know former U.S. President Bill Clinton, King David, and most importantly, Adam and Eve who committed the original sin.
It’s really a battle between the flesh and the spirit. It’s famously said by one of the Saints “the spirit is willing, but the body is weak”.
God Bless everyone!

